feat: complete infrastructure cleanup and optimization

This comprehensive update improves maintainability and removes unused services:

## Major Changes
- Remove 5 unused services (beaver, grist, stirlingpdf, tasksmd, redlib)
- Convert remaining static compose files to Jinja2 templates
- Clean up Caddyfile removing orphaned proxy configurations
- Align DNS records with active services

## Service Cleanup
- Remove habits.thesatelliteoflove.com DNS record (beaver service)
- Add missing DNS records for active services:
  - post.thesatelliteoflove.com (Postiz)
  - files.thesatelliteoflove.com (Pingvin Share)
  - bookmarks.thesatelliteoflove.com (Hoarder)

## Template Standardization
- Convert caddy-compose.yml to template
- Convert dockge-compose.yml to template
- Convert hoarder-compose.yml to template
- All services now use consistent template-driven approach

## Documentation Updates
- Update CLAUDE.md with new service organization
- Update README.md files with category-based deployment examples
- Update todo.md with completed work summary
- Service count updated to 22+ active services

Infrastructure is now fully organized, cleaned up, and ready for future enhancements.

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

roles/docker/templates/caddy-compose.yml.j2

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+services:
+  caddy:
+    image: caddy:2-alpine
+    restart: unless-stopped
+    ports:
+      - "80:80"
+      - "443:443"
+      - "443:443/udp"
+      - "8448:8448"
+      - "8448:8448/udp"
+    volumes:
+      - ./Caddyfile:/etc/caddy/Caddyfile
+      - ./site:/srv
+      - caddy_data:/data
+      - caddy_config:/config
+    labels:
+      glance.name: Caddy
+      glance.icon: si:caddy
+      glance.url: https://thesatelliteoflove.com/
+      glance.description: Reverse proxy
+    networks:
+      default:
+        ipv4_address: 172.20.0.5
+volumes:
+  caddy_data:
+  caddy_config:
+
+networks:
+  default:
+    external: true
+    name: lava