feat: complete infrastructure cleanup and optimization

This comprehensive update improves maintainability and removes unused services:

## Major Changes
- Remove 5 unused services (beaver, grist, stirlingpdf, tasksmd, redlib)
- Convert remaining static compose files to Jinja2 templates
- Clean up Caddyfile removing orphaned proxy configurations
- Align DNS records with active services

## Service Cleanup
- Remove habits.thesatelliteoflove.com DNS record (beaver service)
- Add missing DNS records for active services:
  - post.thesatelliteoflove.com (Postiz)
  - files.thesatelliteoflove.com (Pingvin Share)
  - bookmarks.thesatelliteoflove.com (Hoarder)

## Template Standardization
- Convert caddy-compose.yml to template
- Convert dockge-compose.yml to template
- Convert hoarder-compose.yml to template
- All services now use consistent template-driven approach

## Documentation Updates
- Update CLAUDE.md with new service organization
- Update README.md files with category-based deployment examples
- Update todo.md with completed work summary
- Service count updated to 22+ active services

Infrastructure is now fully organized, cleaned up, and ready for future enhancements.

🤖 Generated with [Claude Code](https://claude.ai/code)

Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

roles/docker/tasks/development/grist.yml

@@ -1,19 +0,0 @@
-- name: make grist directories
-  ansible.builtin.file:
-    path: "{{ item}}"
-    state: directory
-  loop:
-    - /opt/stacks/grist
-
-- name: Template out the compose file
-  ansible.builtin.template:
-    src: grist-compose.yml.j2
-    dest: /opt/stacks/grist/compose.yml
-    owner: root
-    mode: 644
-
-- name: deploy grist stack
-  community.docker.docker_compose_v2:
-    project_src: /opt/stacks/grist
-    files:
-    - compose.yml

roles/docker/tasks/development/main.yml

@@ -11,9 +11,4 @@
 
 - name: Install conduit
   import_tasks: conduit.yml
-  tags: conduit
-
-# Commented services can be uncommented when ready
-#- name: Install grist
-#  import_tasks: grist.yml
-#  tags: grist
+  tags: conduit